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5 Myths About Women’s Séxual Desire, Decoded

There is so much misinformation floating around about women’s séxual desire. It is built up to be so elusive, it is no wonder women feel restricted in their expression of it.
As a researcher who focuses a lot of my attention on s*xual desire, I think it is important to set the record straight when it comes to misinformation regarding women’s séxual desire.
Here are five myths decoded based on the science of desire:
Myth One: Women have lower séxual desire than men.
No! Research has found that women and men are equally likely to be the partner less desirous of séx. This hasn’t been found in just one study, either. In my own research alone, I’ve found a non-significant difference between men and women in three different samples of couples.
Myth Two: Séxual response involves desire, then arousal, and then climax.
Desire doesn’t have to come before arousal. Remember the séxual response cycle you learned in health class? That’s right, most of you likely didn’t learn about this in school… what a shame… topic for another post, perhaps. The model most commonly taught is Masters & Johnson’s model of s*xual response. It is linear. It doesn’t include desire. And it ends with climax followed by resolution (they say women don’t have to go through resolution, hence the ability for multiple climax). A séx therapist, Helen Singer Kaplan, came along and added desire to the model. But she left the model linear, with desire preceding arousal. A more recent model, created by Basson, allows for s*xual desire to happen at any stage; much more accurate to women’s experience. Sometimes, you don’t have any desire but your partner starts messing around with you, arousal kicks in, and bam — there’s some desire you didn’t know you had. Desire doesn’t have to come first, and there is not necessarily anything wrong with you if it doesn’t.

Myth Three: 43 percent of women suffer from s*xual dysfunction.
The still frequently-cited statistic from a study by Laumann and colleagues conducted in 1999 that 43 percent of women suffer from s*xual dysfunction is, simply stated, inaccurate. It is based on a yes/no response option, where participants were asked whether they had experienced any of seven problems for two months over the past year. If the women answered ‘yes’ to any of the problems, they were categorized in that 43 percent statistic. This question didn’t give any context to the reason around the experienced problems (such problems included lack of desire for s*x, anxiety about s*xual performance and difficulties with lubrication). There are a lot of reasons other than ‘dysfunction’ that may account for those types of problems, such as health concerns, relationship issues or cultural expectations. We don’t really know how many people suffer from s*xual dysfunction, because to be frank, we don’t really know whether it is a real dysfunction or not! But that is another topic for another day (but if you’re interested, here is some research and a website that may be of interest).
Myth Four: Women with high séxual desire are anomalies.
A study on what were called ‘highly séxual women’ was recently published by Wentland and colleagues. Based on the responses of 932 women to their online questionnaire, they found that 52 percent of their sample could be classified as “highly s*xual.” Although s*xual desire itself was not measured here, it does give some insight that women who are highly s*xual may not be as rare as one might assume.
Myth Five: Women are vastly different from men when it comes to séxual desire.
In the research I’ve conducted in the area of séxual desire, the most surprising (and perhaps interesting) result has been that there is just as much variation in desire within men and women as there is between men and women. What I mean by that is, people make assumptions that men and women are so different (not just regarding s*xual desire — it goes beyond that), and this may all stem from the whole (recently debunked) ‘Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus’ idea. But this focus on differences doesn’t bring us closer together; it pushes us further apart. And I don’t have any research conducted in the past decade to support this vast gender difference when it comes to s*xual desire. I’ve found that variations in s*xual desire are much more of a relationship issue than a gender issue.
Women’s séxual desire (and men’s, too) is far from simple — it is more like a complicated puzzle, the pieces of which we are still trying to put together. Having pervasive séx-negative myths like those busted above floating around isn’t helping anyone. So, do your part to pass the truth on so we can start to get rid of these harmful messages about women and their expression of s*xual desire.

Vast Of ”Yori Yori” Crooners, Bracket Group Has Cancer!

 One of the singing duo of the group, Bracket, Nwanchukwu Ozioko, otherwise known as Vast is reported to have been diagnosed of a terminable disease called Lymphoma, a cancer of the blood.
The singer was diagnosed in February this year after suffering serious body pains, headaches, non-stop coughing, loss of weight and weakness while in Paris for a show. He flew to London where a test conducted determined he had cancer. Vast, according to report, has been at the Wellington Hospital UK since February receiving treatment and I hear he’s responding very well to treatment.
He has undergone four circles of chemotherapy with each circle costing about N1.4million. He will do a few more before returning to the country next month.

CHRIS OKOTIE MAY APPEAR IN COURT SOON

The pastor of Household of God Church, Lagos , Chris Okotie may appear in court soon.
This is if the application of the defendant of a case the reverend pastor and his church, brought against a former member, Okiotor Dahiaghor who was the Church`s pianist for 12 years. According to the Ex-parte motion brought last Friday before an Ikeja Magistrate Court 27, Makanju Oshodi, Dafe as represented by his counsel, Robert Igbinedion, is asking the honourable court to compel Pastor Okotie to appear in person in court to testify in the suit he has against the defendant.
If the application of the defendant is granted, Pastor Okotie is to present to the court as exhibit, CCTV coverage of the purported scenes of assault of the defendant against Pastor Okotie at the premises of his church on 10th and 15th, July 2012.
The court will decide today May 10, 2013 whether the prayer of the defendant shall be granted. So the case was adjourned till today May 10 2013 for further hearing.