I don’t believe in the statement that all men are the same. Human beings are influenced by the societies they live in so let me tell you something about the Nigerian man I know, especially ones who live in Nigeria.
When you find a good Nigerian man, the good feeling can’t be described no matter how you try. This is obviously why they are much sought after by women of many nations. Knowing one or two things about what drives the Naija man is very important to your relationship with them.
Being that Nigerians can be quite conservative about relationships before marriage, get used to the fact that some Nigerian men will treat you differently in public than they treat you in private. There is always this underlying thing about being macho, not to show too much love to a woman in full view of family and friends lest he be called "woman wrapper". Nigerian men who show much love to their women are often described as being under a spell or juju of some sort. So you can imagine the stigma a man in our society carries, just for showing the world his true feelings for his woman.
This fact can affect a relationship adversely but how a woman chooses to understand and handle it might save the relationship. This kind of man, once in the presence of family, will want to show off how much power he has over you. He may bark orders at you or send you on silly errands in front of his friends. In other countries, such conduct is often regarded as a sign of disrespect, but here, it only means the man has good control of his home. So when he does this to you, it may mean that he is only trying to prove something to society.